Well, it's here: my 30th birthday. I knew the day would come; it is, after all, inevitable. For some reason, I dreaded this day a lot more a few years ago than I do now. Maybe I am maturing in my maturing age. Regardless of the reason, one thing is sure: I tend to reflect around my birthday. I like to think about what I have accomplished in the last year and what I would like to do in the upcoming one. Most of the time, I cry on my birthday. I don't know why, but anyone that truly knows me knows crying isn't all that unusual in my life . Since this is a monumental day I thought I would hit the ground rolling and accomplish some major and not so major things in honor of turning the big twenty-ten. Wish me luck. Notice that by putting these on my blog my accountability goes up ten-fold. Pretty smart. And you thought I was just a pretty face...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!
In honor of this grand milestone in my life, I have decided to make a list of things I would like to accomplish during my 30thyear. I have to admit, I stole this idea from Nicole Diva, but copying is the highest form of flattery, is it not? Some of these goals are silly, some more serious. Some are fairly personal, but that privacy is lost as soon it becomes a blog entry; so, you will have to forgive me. All in all I want to look back on my 30th year with joy, passion and excitement for all of the amazing things I have been able to accomplish. Wish me luck! Will keep you posted…
30 Things to Do While I’m 30
(In no particular order…)
- Get out of credit card debt: I know, I know, Suze Orman would kill me. It isn’t as bad as you might think, but it’s nothing I want to shout from the rooftops either. This goal is really close to being accomplished (is that cheating to put it on my list?).
- Pay of 20% of my school debt: This is another doable goal. I have figured out how much I will have to pay each month. While it is doesn’t seem like a huge amount, it is a step in the right direction. It took me a few years to rack up such a beautiful sum; it is going to take me a few to pay it off.
- Accept my relationship with my brother: For some reason, I have really unattainable expectations about my relationship with my brother and every time we get together I end up frustrated that we are not best friends who have so much in common. I need to realize he loves me but has no desire to be buddy buddy with me. I think the sooner I realize this my life (and our time together) will be much more enjoyable.
- Go on a horse ride: You might be thinking to yourself, “How on earth has a girl from Wyoming never been on a horse ride”? Technically, I have been on one. In my entire life. I was ten (I think). Anyway, every year I say I want to go on a horse ride and then never do. No time like the present my friend!
- Learn how to make Grandma Phyllis’s cinnamon rolls: These are not your ordinary cinnamon rolls. These rolls are worth their weight in gold in the Taggart family and it is high time I learn how to make them. I figure it will take me a few years to master them so I should get started.
- Read 30 books while I’m 30: I love reading. Unfortunately my pursuit of reading for pleasure has fallen to the wayside since I started graduate school. Trust me; I’ve been reading puh-lenty. The problem is I want to read books that I want to read as opposed to reading books for homework! I knew it would take me awhile, but I have finally mustered up the desire to read the Harry Potter series. Another book I want to read is Jesus the Christ, by James Talmage. Many of you will (and should) be shocked I didn’t get around to reading it on my mission. For those of you mentally scolding me, remember I was only in the mission field for 18 months. Those elders had an entire 6 months more to finish it!
- Learn how to french braid: Again, where was I when they passed out this random knowledge? Maybe it is because I never had little sisters, but I am hair challenged. Any guinea pigs out there?
- Learn how to change a tire: Pretty self-explanatory. I think men should know how to change a diaper, so why shouldn’t I know how to change a tire?
- Learn how to tie a tie: Julia Roberts knew how to do in the movie “Pretty Woman”. I figure if she could do it, I could too.
- Learn how to play chess: My best friend Wendy will tell you I suck at games that require any degree of strategic planning. I know this is true, but I still feel like I should learn this game. Who knows? I may end up beating the computer!
- Get my Master’s: (Is this one cheating too?) I am almost finished with my Master’s Degree in Education with Certification to teach Spanish K-12. It has been a great experience that has challenged me in many ways. NBD, I am going to have a MASTERS soon!
- Blog at least once per month: This may sound like a dismal goal, but for those three readers out there, you know my track record is not so hot. I get overwhelmed if I have to blog everything and make it cute and catchy to compete with the blogging masses I end up not blogging at all! Twelve times in a year? Totally doable...
- Re-read the New Testament: I have not read the New Testament cover to cover since I was in college. I love the way you can come to know the Savior and His teachings more intimately as you read the apostle’s words. I think reading it in tandem(ish) with Talmage’s Jesus the Christ will make both more meaningful.
- Golf at least 3 times this year: I like golfing. I am not any good, but I enjoy it. It is fairly expensive and I usually run myself ragged in the summers, but I think 3 times is doable. I’ll even be satisfied if I make it to the driving range!
- Go on 5 hikes in the surrounding area of Wyoming: This will not come as a shock for many of you, but I was not raised in a particularly “outdoor” family. I have always wanted to be more outdoorsy, but I’ve never really learned. Blame it on working crazy summer jobs, but I never really got to take advantage of the beautiful Wyoming outdoors growing up. Now that I am teaching, I hope to learn more about local hikes, etc. and expose/discover? my outdoorsy side.
- Host 3 fabulous parties: I love entertaining. Even thought it is expensive and a lot of work, it is so much fun. I usually host an Oscar party and a Cinco de Mayo party. Any suggestions for my third soiree?
- Paint my bedroom: This is kind of boring, but I have been talking about painting it since I moved in (over 3 years ago). Time to get painting!
- Learn to be Mac savvy: I just invested in a MacBook Pro after my old laptop finally stopped working. I am enjoying some of the programs quite a bit but I know there is so much potential for this computer just waiting to be discovered. Fortunately, my school district is also making the switch. So, between the online tutorials and the training I have to go through at school, I should be set.
- Learn to use a jump-drive: Please don’t pee yourself as you read this. HOW could I not know how to use one? Please don’t make me explain myself, just remember that I STRUG-GLE with computers.*
- Plant a garden: Sometime in May, the gardening bug bit me. Unfortunately, I was gone the entire month of June taking classes, so I didn’t plant anything during our short gardening window. I have been doing some reading and have most of the supplies to grow beans and carrots next year. I would also like to plant an herb garden inside. Food tastes so much better with fresh herbs and spices, don’t you think?
- De-junk my bathroom, closet and life: In short, Live More Simply: I have so much stuff! I don’t necessarily think this is wrong, but I know I don’t need everything I have. We can get too attached to unimportant things. I know that when I have had to go without, i.e. on my mission, I remembered I could survive without everything once deemed a necessity. This one poses to be very challenging for me I expect. If for whatever reason you need to remind me of this goal, put it gently won’t you?
- Take a Spin Class: I have actually already done this. My boyfriend is way into cycling, so we took a class together. I wasn’t so great about going as I had a college class two hours away on one of the class days. I have paid for a class already, I just need to get my butt in gear. After all, who wants to look bad in those bike shorts?
- Feel HEALTHY as opposed to THIN: Sure, who doesn’t want to feel thin? First and foremost, I will never technically fall into the category of “thin”, but you know what I mean. I want to work out because it feels so good when I’m done and because I feel stronger. If I manage to lose some weight, great. The point is to feel healthy, rested and happy. Which leads me to my next goal…
- Love myself more: I am the white woman’s Oprah without the money. Fat, thin, fat, thin—my weight has changed more than Liz Taylor has changed husbands. Like many other women I know, I am extremely hard on myself regarding this issue. I laugh it off a lot, but many times it is a façade so I won’t feel so down on myself! Why do we do this to ourselves? Why are we our worst enemies and the greatest cheerleaders to others? It is unfair and emotionally unhealthy. Whether I fit into my “skinny” jeans or not, I want to love myself for who I am. This is not a free pass to frumpy obesity, (refer to goal #23) but merely a paradigm shift that will hopefully result in more peace and self-acceptance.
- Raise a puppy: Okay, this is also kind of cheating. I should really say “HELP raise a puppy.” (I am quite the cheater, aren’t I?) My parents, (in an attempt to make up for the lack of grandchildren I’m sure) bought an adorable black lab a few weeks ago. His name is Max and he is a spit-fire! I was a little girl the last time our family owned a puppy so it has been a growing and interesting experience for me. I look forward to it (I just need to remember to hide my shoes….)
- Watch all of Planet Earth, The Civil War and WWII: I don’t know if you have seen Ken Burn’s documentaries about the Civil War or WWII, but the parts I have seen are amazing. The same goes with the Planet Earth series. Unfortunately, I have never seen them in their entirety. I’ll be sure to let you know how they turn out.
- Run a 5-K: Okay, please don’t fall out of your chair or pee yourself. To me running is one step below water-boarding as far as torture goes. My aversion is long lived, but I cannot DIE from running five kilometers. I have not really looked into when they have local 5 K’s, but I know they have one every 4th of July, so if it takes me all year, I I may become the next Flo Jo or I may never run again. Time will tell. I have already downloaded a training schedule, which is practically the hardest part, isn’t it???
- Learn how to master Grandma Phyllis’s fudge: As with the cinnamon rolls, this is a family treat that stirs so many memories. I want to learn how to preserve those memories through this delectable dish.
- Learn how to can: Every year, a woman in our ward hauls peaches and pairs from Idaho to Cody for all the woman to can. I have purchased pears and peaches every year for my family to do this. We end up eating them on cereal and ice cream. While this is delicious, it defeats my purposes. Sadly, no one has had the time to teach me and I KNOW this is a task I do not want to take on alone. Apparently, I am not asking firmly enough:). The squeaky wheel...
- Learn how to jump-start a car: I have jumper cables, and I have been shown how to do this. I just don’t have enough confidence about it. I don’t want to shock myself to death! Time to take the bull by the horns and get ‘er done!
Jessica Taggart said...It should be noted that I typed this entry in several sittings. I did, in the interim of this post, "master" using a flash drive. One thing down, twenty-nine to go!
Kelly D. said...I love this idea! Your the goals you set for yourself are great (I may have to steal some!). I'm excited for us to enter our next decade!!!!
Suzette Selden said...I love your goals. They are great. I think it is hilarious you have not been on a horse since you were ten. I imagined you in Wyoming riding all the time ;)
thatslifeforyou said...Hi Jessica! I just clicked on one of the Diva emails (from Wendy) and it led me to your blog. I just read all your goals and am very impressed. I need to do the same. Thanks for inspiring me. BTW, I was thinking of you this month on the 5th (also Buddy's grandma's b-day. She's 93. I'm 100% certain you look way better than her. Weird to think of ourselves 60+ years down the road.) Anyway, Happy Belated Birthday. I sure love you and now want to read more of your blog. Cute design by the way. Miss you! ~Sally
Ming said...Love it love it love it! Fabulous goals for a fabulous woman! You can practice your french braiding on me any time :) I too do not know how to french braid and was recently thinking I should learn. I bet Anna knows how...maybe we should have her teach us on our Calicoma?
Catherine said...OK. Basically all of these goals are totally attainable with my assistance when I come home. Fear not, I will help, and we will accomplish them together!!!!
